The man seated next to us had just finished eating his
dinner then moved a few plates forward to make room for a laptop computer. When the waiter arrived to clear away
the plates, the man made a request we were unable to hear. Minutes later, the
waiter returned with a steaming café cortado, and glass containing a few large
ice cubes. We watched as he added sugar to the cortado and stirred it briskly
with the tiny spoon. He dumped the cortado onto the ice without spilling a
drop, and began to enjoy his iced drink. We had been to this restaurant several
times, and had visited Spain before, but we had not seen this familiar
combination outside of New England.
When we asked for iced coffee before, and in Spanish, we were presented
with such a sense of bewilderment, that we just gave up trying. The man noticed
our fascination with his ritual and smiled, he asked in perfect English if we
thought his was a strange custom.
We became fast friends over discussions of food, and various customs of
the Catalans and the Spanish, politics and travel.
We made new friends that evening in Barcelona through the
simple act of sharing a love of food.
This past summer we were been able to visit, and rekindled our
friendship over
food. Jordi and Cristina (our new friends) treated us to a
home cooked Catalan meal served on a Saturday afternoon. It was a four hour
marathon of tapas, cheeses, seafood, ham, vegetables, white wine, red wine,
gintonics and single malt scotch. It was so much food that we took a break and
went for a walk at one point. A few days later we traveled up the coast and
enjoyed a seaside paella in Cadaqués, which traditionally takes two hours. I have long thought that sharing food
with others is the best way to get to know people, possibly make new friends,
and break down barriers.